Sex is one of the most delicious forms of expressions known to man. Let’s not deceive ourselves, the very moment a man sees an attractive woman, his mind starts projecting a possible future of him tossing her on the bed and “Firing her like ferrari” to orgasmic bliss… Errmm maybe not exactly in such an aggressive sense, but everyone loves the idea of mating with an attractive person, and such always crosses the mind whether we try to deny it or not.
My focus today is ladies who make it difficult for us men in bed, then blame us when performance is less than what they expect.
In my experience with women and based on the experiences of several other ‘aggrieved’ males, I have noticed that many women are lazy in bed. After the first and second year of a relationship when the volcanic fires of passion have ebbed a little, they tend to retreat into a “lie down, spread the legs, moan for encouragement, and roll over when he is done” routine. This laziness is partly responsible for why many women have not experienced orgasms while having sex and this is part of why some men start misbehaving even when they have hot wives (P.S there is no excuse for cheating). Sex is a two way thing. the keyword,” Two”. This means that it goes both ways and one person cannot be held responsible for its success or failure.
Now as much as 99.9 percent of men predominantly want to take the lead in the bedroom, and almost the same number of women tend to allow us all the time. Bad Idea!!! Only on rare occasions like one’s birthday, or sometime else when you’ve probably done something really nice for them, do they wrest out your d**k , and force you to enjoy yourself (if only it were everyday). Sex is very important in a relationship. I say this speaking for every sane man who hates HIV, doesn’t want baby mama drama to ruin his marriage, wants to be a model father for his son, doesn’t want his daughter to be cheated on, etc, “Add athletic sexual prowess to your other qualities, and cheating will be a thing of the past.”
I understand how our society might have influenced the sexual laziness of women having dampened their exuberance from a tender age with different ideas of how a “model” woman should comport herself, and acts like circumcision, but truth is, there is no excuse.
A relationship with a sexually aware woman is one of the most refreshing things ever because she can tell you what she wants, how she wants it, and teaches you to do it. Forget Christianity, Islamity, and Idolatry, when the clothes are off, and the blood is burning hot, “Babes, you have to show yo momma ain’t raised no wimp, but a lady who can give it, take it, and give it back as good as she gets.
There is no shame in calling your man and telling him you will fuck his brains out, then giving as good as you promised. Sex is a two way thing, and as long as you re not being forced with a gun to your head to do it, you might as well make it as memorable as possible for the both of you. Shag him, suck his D. As long as you are in a legitimate relationship, you can do it anytime privacy allows without shame.
Just In Case: The penis can break if you handle it too roughly, so while you at it, handle with care.
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